Just because someone asks you a question, doesn’t mean you have to answer it. Obviously, out of respect for parents, you will often need to tell them what they want to know. But among friends some things are your own business.
You don’t need to always explain yourself. If your friends ask you:
- Why do you wear this?
- Why do you do that?
- Why do you hang out with him?
- Why do you listen to that stupid music?
You can sometimes say, “It suits me.” Or “I just like it.” Enough said.
You don’t have to spend your life explaining yourself or justifying why you do something. If you like to do something and it is not hurting anybody else, that’s perfectly okay.